vrijdag 25 november 2011

Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy.

zondag 20 november 2011

No Rules

For some reason every person wants to set a few rules for them selfs. And ofcourse every single one of those people have their own reason(s). Some think that by making and setting certain rules for yourself you can prevent some things from happening.

There is a saying: "Rules are meant to be broken". But ofcourse, some rules just need to be followed, because you cannot go "around" nor can you "bend" them.

But if something happens it happens. Let me not call them "things", because when it's so beautiful it is not a thing and eventually you either go "around" or "bend" the rules, therfore, there are no rules. No matter how many rules you wanna make. At a certain point none of those rules will matter. No matter how scared it may seem or how scared you may get or how scared you may feel or how how bad you want to protect yourself... some things you cannot control and they just happen.

I think that rules are either made to prevent somethings from happening or they are made because something(s) had happened.

You have people that are so spontaneous, very impulsive and can very seldom think twice about something and can live every moment full of adrenalin. These people can usually be the ones that are so careful and set rules when it comes to their feelings. Even when they know that life continuity gives us roots and changes gives us branches.

Sometimes things happen so spontaneously. And when they had happened, you do not know whether to regret it, even though it is something your heart wants. It is like people sometimes fear what they want the most. But ofcourse you should not give up on something you really want. It is very difficult to sit, wait and think, but it is even worse to regret when you know it is something you secretly want!

Cause there are so many moments you can share with anyone or just someone in particular and you feel like you want that moment to last forever, when you know it is only a moment. And sometimes, well... I dunno if I should call it faith but I will call it that because faith has tricky ways of doing something you probaly thought you'd never expected.

But in life, never regret anything you do. Because in the end it makes you HAPPY and it makes who you are.

zaterdag 5 november 2011


In life I personally think that every single one of us needs some inspiration every now and then.
Everybody gets inspired in a different way. The reason for this is because we are all individuals. Some can do the same things the other person does and some can't. When you are good at something that doesn't have to mean that the other person has to be that also and the other way around.
That's why each and every single one of us gets inspired by something different. Some people get inspired by looking at architecture, some people get inspired by seeing someone work so hard and achieving his/her goals, some get inspired by going to seminars and so on.
I was recently browsing the internet and I landed on a youtube video by Nicholas James Vujicic also known as Nick Vujicic. His words did inspire me!
This man was born in Brisbane on 4 December 1982. He is an Australian of Serbian descent who was, with no medical explanation or warning born, without arms and legs. Nick is an evangelist and motivational speaker, he uses his life to help others. Nick struggled throughout his childhood with his handicap, and at seventeen he started his own nonprofit organization, 'Life Without Limbs'. After graduating from college, he began his journey as a speaker of Vujicic in order to motivate others. Currently, he regularly gives presentations on topics such as disability, hope, and finding meaning in life. So far he has spoken to over three million people in over 24 countries on five continents (Africa, Asia, Australia, South America and North America). (source:http://nl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nick_Vujicic)
Here are a few inspiring words that I would love to share with you. I don't know how you will feel after reading them but I felt great and also very inspired!

'If I fail, I try again, and again, and again...
If you fail... are YOU going to try again?
The human spirit can handle much more than we realize.
It matters HOW you are going to FINISH.
Are YOU going to finish STRONG?
The challenges in our life are there to
They are NOT there to RUN us over.
In LIFE you have a CHOICE:
Choose BETTER, forget bitter'.